excerpt from a book i’ll never write #29

The only thing I know for sure is that the day ends, and the stars will come out and darkness is temporary. But don’t the lights in the sky look so beautiful?


excerpt from a book i’ll never write #28

It was only one night, but his hands running down her back and his lips on her neck seem to be a broken record in her head. It’s not that she misses his smell or the spark of his skin on hers; she craves touch. Any touch. She craves the touch of his arm on hers or their fingers laced. She misses the touch of his breath on her ear as he whispers sweet nothings. But a “he” is just that, and any he will do, and it’s one thing to be alone but another to be lonely. It’s 1:05 in the morning and she’s drunk but he’s the only one on her mind. And him, and him too. Her head spins and her ears are ringing with the words she should have screamed aloud a long time ago, but the worst thing about falling to pieces is that humans do it so quietly. No one hears her heart crack or the soft patter of dripping blood on new, white sheets, and no one can hear her mismatched breaths as she tries to find someone a little better than him. She’s lying in her bed, in her house, and all she wants to do is go home.

excerpt from a book i’ll never write #27

I’ve spent most of my life chasing the person I want to be. Because 20-year-old me will have better friends, and 25-year-old me will land a killer job, and 30-year-old me will be madly in love. And me 6 months from now will be skinnier, and me a year from now will be more confident, and me some time from now will be better somehow. So much better. For years, this is what I thought. That if I could just wait it out, everything would get better.

It took me a long time to realize that life doesn’t work that way. Older doesn’t mean happier or easier, and it certainly doesn’t mean better; it just means older. Life isn’t a well plotted screen play, or a checklist, or, God forbid, some waiting room. We need to stop waiting. Life isn’t about growing up to be all that we’ve ever wanted; it’s just about growing. 

It’s about love, and change, and crying yourself to sleep when it’s all too much; working at a burger joint, and kissing your best friend even though he might not like you back, and calling your mom every Sunday because you miss her like hell. It’s the puffs of cigarettes even though you hate them. It’s kissing random strangers on the side of a bar, even though you already kissed your best friend. It’s fights, and promotions, and hospital visits. Trips to no where and discovering new hiding spots. And then it’s this: another wedding of another one of your high school or college friends, the third one this year, but this time you meet a groomsman who’s just as down on love as you and you dance all night. And this: he cries when you say “I do.” And this: a kid with your eyes and his dorky ears.

Or maybe not. Maybe it’s this: you write everything, everywhere, all the time, even when the prettier kids make fun of you, and the short teacher with the big nose tells you it’s good. Really good. And this: you’re living in a shoebox, by the skin of your teeth, but there’s a bar across the street that lets you read your poetry, and every time you do, someone in the crowd finally knows what it feels like to be understood. Maybe they even throw you five dollars, just because. And this: your words being published. Your words. Your honest, horrifyingly truthful words. Being bought by people who could be spending their money on anything at all. And you sit in your twin bed where you’ve written your entire novel, a dozen empty coffee mugs still dirty on the nightstand, and you scream until your lungs burn because you can, and because you have a voice that needs to be heard. 
It’s all of these things, and bad things, and good things, and the raw realization that it doesn’t get better or worse, it just gets different. We grow. And change. Always, always changing. And somehow that makes it more wonderful. Because future you may have the friends, and the boy, and the job, but she didn’t get it by waiting around. She is a product of you. Right now, tomorrow, changing and growing every moment that follows. Day by day, nothing seems to change, but when we look back everything is different. She is kind, and breathing, and beautiful. But she waits for the day she doesn’t have to worry about paying a mortgage bill, and she worries too often about what people think of her. She still doesn’t have it together.
 And maybe that’s what I’ve learned after all this time. Nobody has it together.

We’re all just here, floundering around in pursuit of being something more. Broken, thoughtful creatures with too much time on our hands, desperate for the companionship of someone who reminds us that we are not alone. We don’t have much of anything figured out. Maybe we never will. But more importantly, I think that’s how it’s supposed to be. 

excerpt from a book i’ll never write #26

And with those eyes, you could have set the sky on fire, but you chose to burn me instead; together we burned.

excerpt from a book i’ll never write #19

I was seated in coach on a flight home. It was a full flight and I was placed in the aisle, grateful that I was not cramped against the window with my knees in my chest. A young woman, about ten years younger than me, with long, brown gold hair and bright green eyes, exchanged a hello with me and sat down to my left. I caught my breath in my throat; she was stunning. Her bright green eyes were rimmed with something more, however; she was tired. She was beaten down, exhausted from holding the world on her shoulders. Maybe it was a long day of travel for herself, or maybe it was something more. Soon after take-off, she had fallen asleep. Her head rested against my shoulder, her hand on my arm. It was the slightest touch I have ever felt, but never shall I forget the way her finger tips felt on the back of my hand: soft and delicate. I never moved or bothered to wake her. When the attendant stopped by, she asked if my wife or I would like anything. I said, “no, we’re good.” The woman lifted her head slightly off my arm, looked into my eyes, and smiled. Maybe she liked the way I looked at her, or maybe she liked how my front teeth aren’t perfectly aligned, or maybe, just maybe, she fell in love for a second. Soon after, she fell asleep just a little closer; just a little closer than before. The plane landed, not a word or a stare from her. Leaving the jetway, she turned, kissed me on the cheek, and said, “I enjoyed our honeymoon.” She walked away, recharged. She no longer looked beaten or weary. She was gorgeous in every way. Her hair grazed the top of her back as she spun on her heels and strutted away. I never saw her again. We left that night not as lovers, but just as brave strangers, looking for a little more.

excerpt from a book i’ll never write #18

Two people who were once very close can, without blame or grand betrayal, become strangers. Perhaps this is the saddest thing in the world. 

But maybe not; love is a lot like math. I think it’s really sad that parallel lines can be like people, travelling side by side, with almost everything in common, but never touching. But it’s also sad that any other pair of lines intersect once, and never meet ever again; that can be a lot like people too.

Then we have parabolas; sometimes they meet once for a moment, or they can meet twice. Either way, only moments are spent between the two. 

Soulmates are kind of like hyperboles; a line meeting the origin for the first time, and forever getting closer and closer. But that’s sad, too, because they also never meet quite right. 

I think the weirdest thing is having leftover information about someone. Like, I still know someone’s favorite girl’s name, or his favorite season, or her favorite ice cream flavors. I know his favorite song to sing when he is upset, or his favorite guitar chord. I know her favorite childhood book, and the mental disorders her uncle had. I remember the ages and birthdays of his siblings. I remember the song he said he’d sing to their spouse. Where do I put this down? Where do I learn to forget? Where do I learn the people can be like lines, meeting once and never again? Or never really meeting at all? 

excerpt from a book i’ll never write #9

20 things i love

1. waking up on a sunday morning, a little too early, and knowing i have a couple more hours to sleep, so i roll over with my white sheets, snuggling up to you

2. taking my hair out of a ponytail and smelling the lavender conditioner you bought me

3. when im supposed to be home at 11:30pm but it’s 2:15 in the morning and im sitting next to you

4. my best friends

5. surfing the internet without cause

6. writing a string of words so perfect you think you could read them somewhere famous

7. getting really good grades on tests and quizzes i have studied hard for

8. sunshine

9. dogs

10. stars and constellations and galaxies and everything in between

11. really funny videos; the ones that make you roll over laughing with your dad on a saturday afternoon, rewinding over and over again

12. getting my paycheck and knowing i have a little bit of extra spending money this week

13. the notion that we are all just a little stardust; we are the universe made conscience

14. roadtrips with important people

15. trespassing

16. chicago during christmas time; or any time, really

17. when it’s three days later and i finally found that word that i was looking for

18. holding hands

19. random facts; the ones that really stick in your brain for god knows what reason

20. loving and being loved in return